Discover Your Essential Need | The 5 Essential Needs

It's more of a need for me to...

(1) have you not over react to uncertainty.

(2) have you automatically know how I'm feeling at times.

It's more of a need for me to...

(2) have you not say things that you don't mean when you are feeling emotional.

(5) have my body caressed by you often.

It's more of a need for me to...

(4) have sex with you regularly.

(3) be able to depend on you to pay my living expenses.

It's more of a need for me to...

(3) be with someone that has good credit.

(2) have you express how you feel and not expect me to guess how you're feeling.

It's more of a need for me to...

(1) have you not shut down or checkout during times of adversity.

(5) be kissed by you before we leave each other's presence.

It's more of a need for me to...

(4) have another sex partner join us sometimes.

(2) hear your words of affirmation daily to feel appreciated.

It's more of a need for me to...

(4) be in an open relationship.

(1) have someone that is punctual.

It's more of a need for me to...

(2) know that you have the ability to express your anger without yelling and screaming.

(5) cuddle with you when I sleep at night.

It's more of a need for me to...

(1) know that you have a lot of self confidence and high self esteem.

(5) receive public displays of affection.

It's more of a need for me to...

(4) receive painful pleasures during sex.

(2) receive small gifts from you regularly to feel like you're thinking of me.

It's more of a need for me to...

(2) have you analyze my feeling with fair judgment.

(1) know that you are a good problem solver.

It's more of a need for me to...

(2) not have you run away or shut down when faced with challenging emotions.

(5) have my body massaged by you often.

It's more of a need for me to...

(4) have good nasty sex with you.

(2) receive acts of service from you to feel like you care.

It's more of a need for me to...

(4) have you have an anything goes attitude sexually.

(5) sit close to you when we are relaxing together.

It's more of a need for me to...

(4) hear dirty talking during sex.

(3) have you stick to a strict financial budget.

It's more of a need for me to...

(2) have you be empathetic to the way I may be feeling.

(1) know that you don't overthink minor situation.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(3) have you save money for emergencies.

(5) have you touch me randomly though out the day.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(4) use toys during sex sometimes.

(3) have you be punctual with paying expenses.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(3) have you have great spending habits.

(2) have you tell me that you love me daily.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(4) be dominated and or be the dominate one during sex.

(1) have you be a great decision maker.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(1) have you be unapologetically honest no matter what.

(3) have you have an entrepreneur mindset.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(4) be with another sex partner sometimes via hall pass.

(5) receive unexpected kisses from you daily.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(4) have an orgasm every time I have sex.

(5) go on romantic dates with you often.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(3) have you be able to pay your living expenses without my help.

(5) just be in your presence for no specific reason at times.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(1) have you perform well and not fold under pressure.

(3) have you have a career and not just a job.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(4) receive 4 play before sex majority of the time.

(1) have you be able to apologize when you know you are wrong.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(1) have you be consistent.

(3) have you make a very large salary.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(1) have you take constructive criticism without getting defensive.

(5) receive hugs from you daily.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(2) have you think of how I may feel before you make a decision.

(3) have you be completely debt free.

It’s more of a need for me to…

(3) have you be open to taking financial risk through investments.

(5) hold hands with you in public often.

The 5 Essential Needs

By Daonn Robinson

Certified Relationship Life Coach

Add Total Number of Answers Here: NOTE: Count each time you selected that need & record it in the box. Your total of each need counted should equal 30.

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